Lubricant Care: How to Keep Your Toys in Top Condition
By Nexus | Published: 2026-08-28
Category: Tips & Care
Learn how to choose and use lubricant with your Nexus toys to protect materials, enhance comfort, and extend their lifespan. Includes practical tips for water-based and silicone formulas.
Choosing the right lubricant is about more than comfort—it directly affects how long your Nexus toys stay in great shape. The wrong lube can degrade silicone surfaces, trap bacteria, or leave sticky residue that’s hard to remove. In this guide, we’ll walk through lube compatibility, application tips, and cleaning routines so your toys perform their best every time.
Whether you’re using a Nexus Revo Blue rotating prostate massager or a Nexus Ace Large vibrating butt plug, the same principles apply. Understanding how different lubricants interact with toy materials will help you avoid damage and keep your collection feeling like new.
Why Lube Matters for Your Toys
Lubricant reduces friction, making play more comfortable and preventing micro-tears on sensitive skin. But it also protects your toys. Friction from inadequate lubrication can wear down the surface of silicone or TPE, creating tiny cracks where bacteria can hide. Using the right lube ensures smooth, safe play and preserves the integrity of your Nexus products.
Additionally, the right lube enhances the experience. For example, a water-based lube works beautifully with the Nexus Forge - Adjustable Cock Ring, providing slickness without affecting the ring’s material. On the other hand, using a silicone-based lube on a silicone toy like the Nexus Tornado Small can cause the surface to break down over time, ruining the toy.

- Always check the toy’s material before selecting a lubricant.
Water-Based Lube: The Safe All-Rounder
Water-based lubricants are the most versatile choice for any Nexus toy. They are compatible with all materials—silicone, TPE, ABS plastic, and even metal. They are also easy to clean: a simple rinse with warm water and mild soap removes them completely. This makes water-based lube ideal for toys like the Nexus Ace Medium vibrating butt plug, which you’ll want to clean thoroughly after each use.
One downside is that water-based lube can dry out faster than other types. Reapplying during longer sessions is normal. You can also add a few drops of water to reactivate it. For beginners using the Nexus Shower Douche Duo Kit - Beginners, water-based lube is perfect for the douche nozzle and any accompanying toys.

- Water-based lube is safe for all Nexus toy materials.
- Reapply as needed—it’s normal for it to absorb or evaporate.
Silicone Lube: Use with Caution
Silicone-based lubricants offer long-lasting slickness and are great for shower play because they don’t wash away easily. However, they can damage silicone toys. If your Nexus toy is made of silicone—which most high-quality toys are—using silicone lube can cause the surface to swell, discolor, or become sticky. This is irreversible damage.
So, when should you use silicone lube? Only with toys that are not silicone-based, such as glass, metal, or ABS plastic. Some Nexus products, like certain vibrators, have plastic exteriors; check the product description. If you’re unsure, stick with water-based lube. For example, the Nexus Revo Blue has a silicone coating, so always use water-based lube with it to maintain its smooth rotating function.
- Never use silicone lube on silicone toys—check the material first.
- If you want the silky feel of silicone lube but have silicone toys, use a hybrid lube (water-based with a small amount of silicone) that’s labeled safe for silicone.
Cleaning Lube Off Your Toys
After play, clean your Nexus toys promptly to prevent lube from drying and attracting dust. Use warm water and a mild, unscented soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Gently wash the entire surface, including ridges and grooves, to remove all lube residue. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry with a lint-free cloth.
For toys with motors, like the Nexus Ace Large vibrating butt plug, never submerge the base or any charging ports. Instead, wipe the surface with a damp cloth and then dry. Pay extra attention to seams where lube can accumulate. Proper cleaning not only extends the life of the toy but also prevents bacterial growth.
- Clean toys immediately after use to avoid lube residue buildup.
- For electronic toys, avoid submerging the motor or battery compartment.
Storing Lubricant and Toys Together
How you store your lubricant and toys affects their longevity. Keep lubricant bottles in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, as heat can break down the formula. For toys, store them separately from silicone-based lubes—even if you use water-based lube, it’s best to keep them in separate pouches or boxes to avoid any accidental contact.
Some Nexus toys come with storage bags, but if not, use a soft cloth or a dedicated toy bag. Avoid storing toys in airtight containers, as some materials need to breathe. Also, keep toys away from extreme temperatures, which can warp or damage them. Following these storage tips ensures your toys remain in top condition for years.
- Store lube and silicone toys separately to prevent accidental contact.
- Avoid high heat and direct sunlight for both lube and toys.
Taking care of your lubricant and toys is a simple routine that pays off in performance and longevity. By choosing water-based lube for your silicone Nexus toys, cleaning them properly after each use, and storing them thoughtfully, you’ll enjoy a safe, comfortable experience every time. Remember, when in doubt, always check the material and opt for the gentler option.



